Sinking Ship

You are a captain of a ship. Unfortunately, your ship is sinking and your life boat can't save everyone. Your wingman hands you the manifest of the ship and says the life boat could only save 8 lives.

The decision is yours. Who will you save and who will be left behind?

The clock is ticking. You won't have that much time to think!

#courtesy of SU Mex 2013
DELEGATION DEVELOPMENT 4
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Have You Been too Busy for Love?

Keep love in your heart. A life without it is a sunless garden when the flowers are dead.

- Oscar Wilde -

What comes to your mind when someone mention about love? The word love could give a many different meanings depending on the age.

A teenager would always see love as something confusing. a bittersweet. Love will give thousands reasons to fly sky high or sink deep down. Nothing could be explained about love during this phase. As an escape, they'll share more with their friends and seek for some comparable situation and solution.

A young man/woman would see love as something different. Love will not be the break or make situation. Love will be more about trust. Love will be the one whom they could share something with and grow up together.

As someone grow older, trust begins to be broken once or twice, here and there. However, they don't see love only as a matter of trust. During this phase, they don't actually share most of their life, but they rather just enjoy the companionship of their beloved one. Love is no longer a matter of interest as they might have seen during their previous phases, but as a matter of commitment. When you are interested in something, you tend to avoid the unpleasant stuffs and take only the fun. But when you are committed to something, you'll take everything, the joy and the sadness, the sweet and bitter, and try to find a way to endure them by compromising.

However, somehow, after that last phase, more men seem opened to talk about love while more women seem to avoid such conversation. Women deem this conversation rather unnecessary and prefer to get down upon more serious one. a marriage maybe?

As M. Gandhi said,

"when there's love, there's life..."

Bila cinta dibahasakan dalam rumus fisika part 1

Siapa bilang Shakespeare adalah pujangga terkenal ketika bahkan karya dia hanya kita tahu melalui semua pemutakhiran Leonardo di Caprio.

Sesungguhnya, Isaac Newton adalah si pujangga terbesar dan paling romantis.

Keromantisannya tertuang dalam 3 bait puisi yang selalu terngiang dalam pikiran. Berikut adalah terjemahan bebas dari puisi aslinya yang ditulis dalam bahasa latin.

Bait 1:
Cinta adalah tidak tercukupi
hanya dengan kata dan janji.
Cinta akan selalu hampa
bila tangan dan kaki tak berarah.

Bait 2:
Keindahan yang dikagumi
Kecantikan yang membius
Berusahalah sepanjang matahari memberi
Karena cinta hanya lahir
dari tindakan tanpa kenal waktu batas.

Bait 3:
Bilamanakah bulan kan bersinar
Tanpa matahari berpencar?
Bilamanakah ku akan dicintai
Bila ku tak tulus mencintai.

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Ketiga bait tersebut adalah bagian dari kumpulan puisi gunakan Isaac Newton yang seringkali disoaljawabkan di masa awal dan kemudian dipahami sebagai Newton's Law of Motion.

Happ-y-ness

What is happiness?

Since it's February and Gandhi rhymes with it (Ha!), let me quote what he said on happiness

Happiness is when what you think, what you say, and what you do are in harmony.


Happiness is a state of mind, channel down through words and "should" end up as an action.But, is my happiness the same with your happiness? Narrowing down on what people commonly strive for in life, we could come to three subjects, Wealth, Health, & Love.
 
 I see Love as the core of my happiness. Love is something we could only meet once or twice during our entire existence as human being. (Oi! Love doesn't necessarily mean have to involve in a relationship!). But Wealth,  you could always seek your fortune. You can pave your own way of success. As a friend of mine said, Wealth will be enough to buy you human, but you won't have enough to actually buy their loves. Love could also drive you, motivate you to strive for your Health, something that your Wealth can't buy. In the end, if have love though you are poor and sick, you can still be calmed by the Love.

I define my happiness by being in love with someone and doing things I love, each and everyday. :)